I will record a video in a bit and show the problem, ive just learned how to use OBS so it didn't occur to me to do that, but yeah, i will try to get that done and posted here soon. thank you for the advice.. i honestly don't know why i didn't think to do it sooner
EDIT: Ok so i Googled the same problem but for Blender, which has a LOT more Tutorials for it because i mean, its Free. so of course it's gonna have Billions of Users, right? so i figured maybe it would be an issue that would be cross platform, since 3D Coat, Blender, 3DS Max/Maya, they all use Similar Poly Modeling "To an Extent i mean" right?
Come to find out my Cursor was too big. the Yellow Circle Pointer was too big, so when i was moving the Verts around they were trying to Snap to the other side of the Model. least that's what it seems like the issue is to me, and that's what another user on Blender was told the problem was. i turned the radius WAY down and seemingly the problem is fixed, so i just wanted to post it here in case that is indeed the fix and if anyone else has this problem they can find it too.
thank you for the help as always, though.
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